The Anxious Generation
How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness
(Sprache: Englisch)
From New York Times bestselling coauthor of The Coddling of the American Mind, an essential investigation into the collapse of youth mental health and a plan for a healthier, freer childhood.
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From New York Times bestselling coauthor of The Coddling of the American Mind, an essential investigation into the collapse of youth mental health and a plan for a healthier, freer childhood.
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Part 1A Tidal Wave
Chapter 1
THE SURGE OF SUFFERING
When I talk with parents of adolescents, the conversation often turns to smartphones, social media, and video games. The stories parents tell me tend to fall into a few common patterns. One is the constant conflict story: Parents try to lay down rules and enforce limits, but there are just so many devices, so many arguments about why a rule needs to be relaxed, and so many ways around the rules, that family life has come to be dominated by disagreements about technology. Maintaining family rituals and basic human connections can feel like resisting an ever-risingtide, one that engulfs parents as well as children.
For most of the parents I talk to, their stories don t center on any diagnosed mental illness. Instead, there is an underlying worry that something unnatural is going on, and that their children are missing something really, almost everything as their online hours accumulate. But sometimes the stories parents tell me are darker. Parents feel that they have lost their child. A mother I spoke with in Boston told me about the efforts she and her husband had made to keep their fourteen-year-old daughter, Emily, away from Instagram. They could see the damaging effects it was having on her. To curb her access, they tried various programs to monitor and limit the apps on her phone. However, family life devolved into a constant struggle in which Emily eventually found ways around the restrictions. In one distressing episode, she got into her mother s phone, disabled the monitoring software, and threatened to kill herself if her parents reinstalled it. Her mother told me:
It feels like the only way to remove social media and the smartphone from her life is to move to a deserted island. She attended summer camp for six weeks each summer where no phones were permitted no electronics at all. Whenever we picked her up from camp she was her normal self. But as soon as she started
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using her phone again it was back to the same agitation and glumness. Last year I took her phone away for two months and gave her a flip phone and she returned to her normal self.
When I hear such stories about boys, they usually involve video games (and sometimes pornography) rather than social media, particularly when a boy makes the transition from being a casual gamer to a heavy gamer. I met a carpenter who told me about his 14 year-old son, James, who has mild autism. James had been making good progress in school before COVID arrived, and also in the martial art of judo. But once schools were shut down, when James was eleven, his parents bought him a PlayStation, because they had to find something for him to do at home.
At first it improved James s life he really enjoyed the games and social connections. But as he started playing Fortnite for lengthening periods of time, his behavior began to change. That s when all the depression, anger, and laziness came out. That s when he started snapping at us, the father told me. To address James s sudden change in behavior, he and his wife took all of his electronics away. When they did this, James showed withdrawal symptoms, including irritability and aggressiveness, and he refused to come out of his room. Although the intensity of his symptoms lessened after a few days, his parents still felt trapped: We tried to limit his use, but he doesn t have any friends, other than those he communicates with online, so how much can we cut him off?
No matter the pattern or severity of their story, what is common among parents is the feeling that they are trapped and powerless. Most parents don t want their children to have a phone-based childhood, but somehow the world has reconfigured itself so that any parent who resists is condemning their children to social isolatio
When I hear such stories about boys, they usually involve video games (and sometimes pornography) rather than social media, particularly when a boy makes the transition from being a casual gamer to a heavy gamer. I met a carpenter who told me about his 14 year-old son, James, who has mild autism. James had been making good progress in school before COVID arrived, and also in the martial art of judo. But once schools were shut down, when James was eleven, his parents bought him a PlayStation, because they had to find something for him to do at home.
At first it improved James s life he really enjoyed the games and social connections. But as he started playing Fortnite for lengthening periods of time, his behavior began to change. That s when all the depression, anger, and laziness came out. That s when he started snapping at us, the father told me. To address James s sudden change in behavior, he and his wife took all of his electronics away. When they did this, James showed withdrawal symptoms, including irritability and aggressiveness, and he refused to come out of his room. Although the intensity of his symptoms lessened after a few days, his parents still felt trapped: We tried to limit his use, but he doesn t have any friends, other than those he communicates with online, so how much can we cut him off?
No matter the pattern or severity of their story, what is common among parents is the feeling that they are trapped and powerless. Most parents don t want their children to have a phone-based childhood, but somehow the world has reconfigured itself so that any parent who resists is condemning their children to social isolatio
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Autoren-Porträt von Jonathan Haidt
Jonathan Haidt
Bibliographische Angaben
- Autor: Jonathan Haidt
- 2024, 400 Seiten, mit Schwarz-Weiß-Abbildungen, Maße: 15,7 x 24 cm, Gebunden, Englisch
- Verlag: Penguin Random House
- ISBN-10: 0593655036
- ISBN-13: 9780593655030
- Erscheinungsdatum: 26.03.2024
Sprache:
Englisch
Pressezitat
Erudite, engaging, combative, crusading. Tracy Dennis-Tiwary, New York Times Book ReviewWords that chill the parental heart thanks to Mr. Haidt, we can glimpse the true horror of what happened not only in the U.S. but also elsewhere in the English-speaking world lucid, memorable galvanizing. Meghan Cox Gurdon, Wall Street Journal
I found myself nodding along in agreement benefits from years of research on how smartphones and social media dice the nerves and tamp the spirits of young people not just reasonable but irrefutably necessary. Jessica Winter, New Yorker
Boundlessly wise important and engrossing. Frank Bruni, New York Times Opinion
All the suggestions sound sensible. Some even sound fun . . . Deals seriously with counter-arguments and gaps in the evidence. The Economist
Can be quite wonderful beautifully grounds his critique in Buddhist, Taoist and Christian thought traditions His common-sense recommendations for actions...are excellent. Judith Warner, The Washington Post
"[An] important new book...The shift in kids energy and attention from the physical world to the virtual one, Haidt shows, has been catastrophic, especially for girls." Michelle Goldberg, The New York Times
Informative and compelling Haidt wants children to spend more time appreciating nature, playing with friends, riding and falling off their bikes, and doing age-appropriate chores. Glenn C. Altschuler, Psychology Today
"An urgent and essential read, and it ought to become a foundational text for the growing movement to keep smartphones out of schools, and young children off social media" Sophie McBain, The Guardian (UK)
Compelling, readable and incredibly chilling . . . remarkably persuasive. Lucy Denyer, Telegraph (UK)
"A persuasive and rousing argument" Anna Davis, Evening Standard (UK)
If this important book rings enough alarms (wait, or is that
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just my phone pinging?) to make politicians impose a genuine social media ban on children, I believe most parents would be happy and most teenagers happier. Helen Rumbelow, The Times (UK, Book of the Week)
"Haidt sets out inarguable evidence that smartphones are fuelling an anxiety epidemic among young people and big tech must do more to reverse it an extremely important and compelling read that is recommended not only to parents but to anyone who has felt increasingly pressurised by technology I can t recommend this book highly enough; everyone should read it. It is a game-changer for society." Stella O'Malley, Irish Independent
Jonathan Haidt is a modern-day prophet, disguised as a psychologist. In this book, he s back to warn us of the dangers of a phone-based childhood. He points the way forward to a brighter, stronger future for us all. Susan Cain, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Bittersweet and Quiet
An urgent and provocative read on why so many kids are not okay and how to course correct. Jonathan Haidt makes a powerful case that the shift from play-based to phone-based childhoods is wreaking havoc on mental health and social development. Even if you re not ready to ban smartphones until high school, this book will challenge you to rethink how we nurture the potential in our kids and prepare them for the world. Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Hidden Potential and Think Again, and host of the TED podcast Re:Thinking
This is a crucial read for parents of children of elementary school age and beyond, who face the rapidly changing landscape of childhood. Haidt lays out problems but also solutions for making a better digital life with kids. Emily Oster, New York Times bestselling author of Expecting Better
Every single parent needs to stop what they are doing and read this book immediately. Jonathan Haidt is the most important psychologist in the world today, and this is the most important book on the topic that s reshaping your child s life right now. Johann Hari, author of Stolen Focus
This book poses a challenge that will determine the shape of the rest of the century. Jonathan Haidt shows us how we ve arrived at this point of crisis with technology and the next generation. This book does not merely stand athwart the iPhone yelling Stop! Haidt provides research-tested yet practical counsel for parents, communities, houses of worship, and governments about how things could be different. I plan to give this book to as many people as I can, while praying that we all have the wisdom to ponder and then to act. Russell Moore, editor in chief of Christianity Today
"Haidt sets out inarguable evidence that smartphones are fuelling an anxiety epidemic among young people and big tech must do more to reverse it an extremely important and compelling read that is recommended not only to parents but to anyone who has felt increasingly pressurised by technology I can t recommend this book highly enough; everyone should read it. It is a game-changer for society." Stella O'Malley, Irish Independent
Jonathan Haidt is a modern-day prophet, disguised as a psychologist. In this book, he s back to warn us of the dangers of a phone-based childhood. He points the way forward to a brighter, stronger future for us all. Susan Cain, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Bittersweet and Quiet
An urgent and provocative read on why so many kids are not okay and how to course correct. Jonathan Haidt makes a powerful case that the shift from play-based to phone-based childhoods is wreaking havoc on mental health and social development. Even if you re not ready to ban smartphones until high school, this book will challenge you to rethink how we nurture the potential in our kids and prepare them for the world. Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Hidden Potential and Think Again, and host of the TED podcast Re:Thinking
This is a crucial read for parents of children of elementary school age and beyond, who face the rapidly changing landscape of childhood. Haidt lays out problems but also solutions for making a better digital life with kids. Emily Oster, New York Times bestselling author of Expecting Better
Every single parent needs to stop what they are doing and read this book immediately. Jonathan Haidt is the most important psychologist in the world today, and this is the most important book on the topic that s reshaping your child s life right now. Johann Hari, author of Stolen Focus
This book poses a challenge that will determine the shape of the rest of the century. Jonathan Haidt shows us how we ve arrived at this point of crisis with technology and the next generation. This book does not merely stand athwart the iPhone yelling Stop! Haidt provides research-tested yet practical counsel for parents, communities, houses of worship, and governments about how things could be different. I plan to give this book to as many people as I can, while praying that we all have the wisdom to ponder and then to act. Russell Moore, editor in chief of Christianity Today
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