Litigare fa bene (ePub)

Again they quarrel. Again screaming, crying or even a fight. Or maybe your child's teacher or class teacher called you to tell you that he was in conflict with someone again? The first reaction of any parent is to stop the quarrel, punish the guilty (or even all participants), or lecture on how obedient children should behave. But Daniele Novara, a renowned Italian child psychologist, educator and conflict specialist, thinks otherwise. And insists - every parent should reconsider their attitude to children's quarrels! With the help of simple explanations and many examples, the author proves that it is extremely important to give children the opportunity to independently understand the controversial situation. After all, the suppression of children's conflicts by adults and the imposition of reconciliation on them negatively affects the formation of social skills and the ability to build interpersonal relationships. Children's quarrel allows us to realize what is inherent in us by nature itself: the ability to coexist with each other and at the same time express our discontent. In addition, the method developed by the author will help parents overcome the anxiety that, allowing children to quarrel, they act incorrectly, that children may suffer. This book is the first step in learning to support your children without resorting to constant bullying, swearing, or intrusiveness. After all, this is the key to a happy childhood and parenthood.